2025 SHoWLE Winter Solstice Soiree

December 20 @ 5:00 pm 8:00 pm

Our 2nd Winter Solstice Soiree is fast approach­ing. We hope you have plans to attend. The evening starts at 5 PM with a social then din­ner at about 5:30 PM.

Dinner will be potluck style so add your name and the dish or two you wish to share to our potluck form. This is to min­i­mize dupli­ca­tion. We expect 15 to 25 peo­ple to attend but feel free to cook as much or as lit­tle as you feel. SHoWLE will be pro­vid­ing the entree which will include Lasagna, a pot roast, and a veg­e­tar­i­an choice. We will also pro­vide cof­fee, tea, soda pop, and water. Feel free to bring your own adult bev­er­age if you like. We will also have plates, nap­kins, and cut­lery.

https://www.PerfectPotluck.com/IPWP0304

We will also have some oppor­tu­ni­ties to sup­port SHoWLE. We will accept cash “tip” dona­tions and we will be hav­ing sev­er­al items to bid on through a silent auc­tion. This includes some SHoWLE brand­ed mugs with hot choco­late and a mug rug. We will have four gift cards to bid on. And we are work­ing on a gift bas­ket as a prize.

This event is free to attend. You aren’t required to bring a dish to share but we would still like an RSVP. Just let us know you are attend­ing so we can make sure we have a seat for you.

We will be enter­ing the church by the back­door which is clos­er to the Fellowship Hall

*Update 12/12/2025* Due to a sched­ule con­flict Dr. Williamson had to can­cel her vis­it at our event. If you donat­ed to the hat and would like a refund please let us know. The event will still take place on 12/20 as sched­uled

Free

First Unitarian Church of Toledo

3205 Glendale Ave.
Toledo, Ohio 43614 United States
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Pre Gobble Gobble Happy Time

Pre Gobble Gobble Event

November 26 @ 6:00 pm 8:00 pm

Pre Gobble Gobble Event

Since the found­ing of SHoWLE in 2018, we’ve made an effort to meet for din­ner on the day before Thanksgiving for the social aspect and to take a short breather before the hol­i­day may­hem many of us expe­ri­ence.

Here is a link to find the restau­ran­t’s menu:

https://fortuneinnrestaurant.com

Free

First Unitarian Church of Toledo

3205 Glendale Ave.
Toledo, Ohio 43614 United States
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Preview

MeetUP: Ritter Planetarium Show

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November 7 @ 7:30 pm 9:00 pm

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Europe to the Stars

Discover the European Southern Observatory in a sto­ry of cos­mic curios­i­ty, courage and per­se­ver­ance; a sto­ry of observ­ing a Universe of deep mys­ter­ies and hid­den secrets; and a sto­ry of design­ing, build­ing and oper­at­ing the most pow­er­ful ground-based tele­scopes on the plan­et. The pro­gram focus­es on the essen­tial aspects of an astro­nom­i­cal obser­va­to­ry while offer­ing a broad­er view of how astron­o­my is done. From site-testing to locate the best places in the world for observ­ing the sky, to how tele­scopes are built and what mys­ter­ies of the Universe astronomers are reveal­ing.

Program also includes a look through one of the University’s tele­scopes.

The cost, paid at the venue is $8 for adults and $6 for chil­dren, seniors and UToledo com­mu­ni­ty mem­bers (chil­dren 3 and under are free).

Shows are first come first serve no reser­va­tions tak­en. They ask you arrive at least 45 min­utes before the show and it will start prompt­ly at 7:30 so there are no late arrivals admit­ted. The main show lasts an hour and the tele­scope view­ing takes place after that.

Parking: There is a lot near the build­ing off North Towerview Blvd.

MeetUp — when one or more mem­bers of SHoWLE plan to par­tic­i­pate in an activ­i­ty and are look­ing for friends to join in the fun. These events are not host­ed by SHoWLE but we will pro­mote those that fur­ther our mis­sion and/or match our val­ues.

Free

First Unitarian Church of Toledo

3205 Glendale Ave.
Toledo, Ohio 43614 United States
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Humanist Happy Hour: Shawn’s Irish Tavern

October 30 @ 6:00 pm 7:30 pm

Monthly social after work at a local water­ing hole, Nothing fan­cy and no struc­ture just being in a small autonomous col­lec­tive par­tak­ing in bev­er­ages, adult or oth­er­wise and shar­ing a joke or two.

Sing us a song, you’re the piano man
Sing us a song tonight
Well, we’re all in the mood for a melody
And you’ve got us feel­in’ alright

The only cost involved is what you want to spend on food and/or drinks

Free

First Unitarian Church of Toledo

3205 Glendale Ave.
Toledo, Ohio 43614 United States
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This meet­ing or in-person event takes place in a pub­lic place and like­ly does NOT con­form to any cur­rent SHoWLE pol­i­cy. Holding our meet­ing or event at a venue not owned or con­trolled by SHoWLE does NOT nec­es­sar­i­ly con­sti­tute an endorse­ment of any prod­ucts, ser­vices, or view point pro­vid­ed by the venue.

Sign-up for our Summer Solstice Picnic

We now have a potluck sign up form for the pic­nic on June 21st. This just to avoid dupli­cate food but feel free to bring what­ev­er you want to share.

SHoWLE will have a lim­it­ed num­ber of ham­burg­ers and hot dogs as well has cold soda and water to drink and plates and uten­sils to use. Feel free to bring any games you want to share.

Food sign-up here

More infor­ma­tion about the pic­nic can be found the events page.

A ‘Magical Night’ with Gloria Steinem

Gloria Steinem on Zoom 12-21-2024

The evening of December 21, 2024 was a mag­i­cal night and I don’t even believe in mag­ic. My group the Secular Humanists of Western Lake Erie held our first Winter Solstice event at the Yeager Center at Swan Creek Metropark. When plan­ning the event I did want to have some­thing spe­cial like a spe­cial speak­er but our group is still pret­ty small. Our co-founder Shawn sug­gest­ed invit­ing Gloria Steinem to speak over Zoom. Gloria is a fem­i­nist icon, 2012 Humanist of the Year, and grew-up in Toledo. I did­n’t believe it would hap­pen. This is Gloria Steinem, one of the most famous activists in the world and we are a low­ly Humanist group in the Black Swamp of Northwest Ohio. But we tracked down her speak­ing con­tact and I sent an email.

The day I got the response was emo­tion­al — her peo­ple said she was con­sid­er­ing our request. Holy S*it!!!! It might hap­pen. I was so excit­ed and then got more excit­ed when we agreed on a speak­ing fee and signed the con­tract — It was going to hap­pen.

25 peo­ple joined us on December 21. Several of them had donat­ed to Gloria’s speak­ing fee and many more joined us to hear from Gloria. The food spread was so gen­er­ous that we had to break out anoth­er table to hold it all. There were some adult bev­er­ages drank and cof­fee made and we were all hav­ing a good time.

As it came time for Gloria’s vis­it my 10 year old lap top decid­ed to be dif­fi­cult and it was­n’t going to boot up and be ready to go in time. Oh did I tell you the Yeager Center does­n’t have WI-FI?? I was prepar­ing for a huge melt down because of tech issues. Shawn saved the day because in try­ing to play a music playlist from their phone to the TV we dis­cov­ered they could screen­cast to the TV. When I could­n’t get my lap­top ful­ly boot­ed up I used my phone to start the Zoom ses­sion and Shawn joined the meet­ing and host­ed as orig­i­nal­ly planned. Then once we fig­ured out to make it full screen the tech issue was gone and we enjoyed our short time talk­ing to Gloria *Freaking* Steinem as she sat at her desk in her brown­stone in New York City.

We had some ques­tions pre­pared and took a few from the audi­ence. One per­son asked if there were any younger polit­i­cal women she admired and she men­tioned Amy Richards but what she did next blew my mind. She asked us who the up and com­ing polit­i­cal women in Toledo were and we called out some like Dr. Michelle Grim, Erika White, and Katie Moline and Gloria WROTE their names down. I hope she reach­es out to them in some fash­ion. I wish we had some more names ready. Gloria still cares about her home­town even though she left before she grad­u­at­ed from high school.

As we closed she wished us well and hoped to stay in touch and Shawn told her if she was ever in the Toledo area to let us know and we would set­up and event or some­thing for her.

Shortly after the call, the potluck for­mal­ly end­ed as we held the draw­ing for a large gift bas­ket donat­ed for the occa­sion. It was won by our mem­ber Colette C.

And I was able to make in home in time to catch the Ohio State foot­ball game against Tennessee which turned out great as the Buckeyes won.

Like I said it was a mag­i­cal night and we are already talk­ing about hav­ing a Summer Solstice event in the com­ing year.

Thanks to all our mem­bers and friends who attend­ed and donat­ed toward this potluck and made it a great suc­cess and I want­ed to thank again the mem­bers of the Potluck com­mit­tee for this six month odyssey — Shawn and Anne E. and our set­up and clean up helpers Bev and her friend Anne B.

If you attend­ed please feel free to send us feed back by email or use our con­tact form — let us know what you liked or did­n’t like the event.

This post was writ­ten by SHoWLE President Douglas Berger


Here is a mon­tage of the night:

Although due to the con­tract we signed, we were not able to record or livestream the vis­it, Zoom did pro­vide a sum­ma­ry cre­at­ed by AI. After some light edit­ing here is the sum­ma­ry:

Winter Solstice Potluck with Gloria Steinem

One of the big events I’ve want­ed to have for the mem­bers and friends of SHoWLE was a win­ter sol­stice gath­er­ing. Many Humanist groups around the coun­try have one and my for­mer group in Columbus had a catered ban­quet each year in December. I would like to announce we will be hav­ing a Winter Solstice Potluck on Saturday December 21, 2024.

I ini­tial­ly had plans for a Winter Solstice Potluck to hap­pen in 2020 and we know why we did­n’t have one. Then after the pan­dem­ic sub­sided SHoWLE did strug­gle to get its feet back under it. I am con­fi­dent that in 2024 we are at least at the place we were at the start of 2020.

The catered ban­quet was used as a fundrais­er for my Columbus group but through the years the costs of the ban­quet wiped out any “prof­it” from sell­ing tick­ets to the event and peo­ple had a cer­tain expec­ta­tion when the event is catered. You buy a tick­et to a din­ner and you expect table ser­vice and bev­er­ages etc….

I like a potluck set­up bet­ter espe­cial­ly for a Humanist group who gath­er as a com­mu­ni­ty to observe the sol­stice.

We also don’t have to sell you tick­ets to attend and that way we can have some­thing else to fundraise off of like door prizes or a raf­fle. And I can assure you there will be plen­ty of oppor­tu­ni­ties.

A potluck also keeps the event open and inclu­sive to the com­mu­ni­ty at large. That way you don’t need to spend $30 a plate for din­ner. It also helps us “cater” to peo­ple with spe­cial diets either they have a med­ical issue or they choose to be veg­an for exam­ple, a potluck is a bet­ter way to have food for every type of diet.

The Winter Solstice Potluck is ten­ta­tive­ly sched­uled for December 21 at the Yager Center at Swan Creek Metropark. In the fall we will have more details and dish sign-up list to try to avoid too much dupli­ca­tion. Other details will fol­low soon after.

I am excit­ed to have this event even I was sweat in the heat and humid­i­ty of June.

Mark this on your cal­en­dar. You can keep up on details as we add them on the event page on our web­site

*UPDATE*

Humanist and fem­i­nist Gloria Steinem will be our keynote speak­er. She will appear via Zoom to say a few words. SHoWLE is thrilled she agreed to speak

https://humanistswle.org/event/winter-solstice-potluck-2024

Thanks to our donors we have raised Gloria’s speak­ing fee

Having A Blast At Skepticon

This week­end I am attend­ing Skepticon 11 in St. Louis, MO with Shawn and Peggy. Skepticon is a free con­ven­tion for sec­u­lars and skep­tics.

Shawn and I are hav­ing a good time, meet­ing new peo­ple, get­ting new ideas, and com­muning with peo­ple who have sim­i­lar world views as we do.

I’ve learned how to make an awe­some pod­cast and how to per­suade peo­ple on issues I think are impor­tant. I also learned about the reli­gious right’s effort to have spe­cial laws passed in state leg­is­la­tures through their Project Blitz ini­tia­tive. Did you know Ohio has a chap­ter of the Prayer Caucus? It lob­bies state leg­is­la­tors in Columbus.

Shawn and I are bring­ing back meet­ing and event ideas for the com­ing year.

The only mis­step to this year’s con­fer­ence is it being sched­uled dur­ing the 5th Anniversary of the death of Michael Brown. He was shot and killed by a white police offi­cer just 10 miles away in Ferguson. Until one of the talks this evening, Skepticon made no effort to acknowl­edge the event. I hope they do bet­ter next time in mak­ing sure there are no con­flicts like that or at least ded­i­cate some time to mark­ing those kinds of tragedies.

Shawn walked around the area where our hotel is locat­ed and men­tioned to me she saw a lot of home­less peo­ple. It made me con­sid­er that a con­ven­tion like Skepticon should include a com­mu­ni­ty ser­vice project so par­tic­i­pants expe­ri­ence life out­side the hotel.

I do want to attend anoth­er Skepticon in the future. This type of con­ven­tion is need­ed by peo­ple in our com­mu­ni­ty.