Things To Know About SHoWLE

Here is some general information to know about SHoWLE and our activities.

Meetings and Events:

We will hold at least one general meeting a month except during the summer months of July and August. The general meetings will be a formal structure with a short announcement/introduction period at the start then a program with a speaker or discussion topic. We might also show a film or TV show of interest to discuss.

We are still aware that COVID-19 still exists and we abide by an in-person meeting policy that can be found on our Policies and Resolutions page. It is also possible a scheduled meeting will be canceled either due a public health issue or a facilitator becomes ill. We will try to notify the public should a meeting be canceled or moved.

General meetings will always be free and open to the public. However depending on the location of the meeting some members may need to buy something at the location – such as a restaurant – in exchange for us using the location. You will get ample notification if that will happen. SHoWLE won’t police such purchases so if you want to attend the meeting and don’t have cash just let a Board member or officer know.

Events are activities or meetings outside of a general meeting. They may be less structured and less formal. It might be a group going to the movies, or having dinner, or having a bowling night. These events may cost money to attend and we will make that known in advance. The fees involved don’t go to SHoWLE. We will try to have events that are either free to attend or a low cost. If the cost of an event is an issue for you please reach out to an officer or a Board member.

Depending on the meeting or event, we may “pass the hat” for donations to offset the cost of putting on the meeting and event. No one will be obligated to contribute to the hat especially if you paid money to attend the meeting or event. Unlike some religious groups we won’t call you out for not donating and we won’t treat you any differently based on if you donated or how much you donated.

We Are An Inclusive and Welcoming Group That Encourages Diversity

SHoWLE invites all who wish to attend our meetings and events including everyone in the LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities, and all marginalized individuals. Humanism is not limited to old rich white men. We want to include people from all walks of life and even those who consider themselves religious believers. We acknowledge that the LGBTQ+ and Black communities, especially, have been targeted not only in recent years but historically and SHoWLE will strive to create a safe space for Humanists and freethinkers from all marginalized communities.

Working with other groups:

We give priority to working with other like minded groups who share a major portion of our world view and principles. While we aren’t opposed to working with faith based groups on shared objectives, SHoWLE will not “tone down” or hide our beliefs for the sake of the other group’s “comfort”. It is more important to accomplish the shared objective and not be judgmental.

We will not work with groups who don’t support human rights for all people.

Group Discussion Best Practices:

We intend to foster a membership that is curious about the world and who want to explore human solutions to human problems without regard to any specific world view or politics. We want to create a space that is open and honest about these topics and ideas. To that end, here are some general best practices to be used during group discussions or “Question & Answer” periods after a speaker.

1. Discussions will be moderated by an officer or volunteer. Please raise a hand when you want to speak and allow the speaker to finish what they have to say before asking to speak. The moderator will have the power to stop a speaker and move to the next speaker if people are waiting to speak.

2. Please stay on topic and be as brief as possible in making your point. Be considerate of others who might be waiting to speak. If you want to pontificate on a topic, save it for your blog.

3. Remember – Treat all with basic dignity and worth even those you disagree with. “Attack” the idea and NOT the person. Name calling, bullying, or harassment of anyone will NOT be tolerated. Punishment for doing it may include being asked to leave the meeting or event and could lead to your removal as a member of the group.

*Note* Critical examination of beliefs, including critical commentary on another person’s views, does not, by itself, constitute bullying or harassment.

4. Because we are a non-profit group we will not and cannot endorse candidates for political office. We can advocate for issues such as civil rights, keeping abortion legal and safe, and the need for a strong and rational public education system for example. Members can wear political shirts and buttons at meetings and events. Members can also ask for petition signatures but please do that before or after a meeting.

5.  Although all topics and ideas are open for discussion at a meeting, there is one topic we won’t be discussing. SHoWLE is a humanist group and many of us are humanists because we came to a reasonable conclusion on the existence of “god” question. Arguing religious points or apologetics won’t be welcome.  Also comments that unnecessarily disparage religion are simply boring to those of us who have moved to secular humanism and won’t be welcome.

Comments that attempt to denigrate whole groups of people also aren’t welcome. We are interested in solving problems not scapegoating.

6. There will not be a right to speak without consequences. Humanists believe all ideas are open to question including our own. There is a possibility we are wrong.